There is a dysfunctional church,
because there are dysfunctional families in the church.
There are dysfunctional families,
because there are dysfunctional marriages in families.
There are dysfunctional marriages,
because there are dysfunctional husbands and wives in marriages.
There are dysfunctional husbands and wives,
because there are dysfunctional men and women.
There are dysfunctional men and women,
because men and women disobeyed God, going about doing whatever pleases themselves, neglects the responsibilities that God has given them.
Husbands are given the responsibilities of leadership in a marriage, not only in physical and material, but more importantly in spiritual leadership. Wives are given the responsibilities to support and submit to the leadership of the husband.
Sadly, men and women have not been fulfulling thier responsibilities. Just as Adam did not took on the leadership in seeking God, allowing his wife, Eve, to take on that responsibility. Desire to be like God, Eve, persuaded by the devil, ate the forbidden fruit, then in turn, she persuaded her husband, Adam to do the same, thus both disobeyed God.
A dysfunctional man resulted a dysfunctional woman, when both became dysfunctional husband and wife, they formed a dysfunctional marriage, gave birth to dysfunctional family, established a dysfunctinal church.
Husbands, please be responsible in taking leadership in regards to spiritual matters of your marriage and family! When you don't, your wife would, not because she will, but because there's a natural yearning and desire towards spiritual matters in everyone of us, that is, to seek God. When your wife does, and you as husband decides to follow her, rather than leading her in seeking God, your marriage and family turn into "DYSFUNCTIONAL".